Exactly. The sooner you stop the ENABLING. The sooner she will have to GROW UP and FACE her RESPONSIBILITIES.

I know it's hard. We all had to do it. But, it's the only way.

You not being nice enough did not FORCE her to invite OM into her life. Her own insecurities and low self-esteem did. Not to mention "daddy issues". So how do you "attempt" to have her face some of these "issues" you take away the "SECURITY BLANKET" - Enter PDT, Coach, Rob, Guc, Stevie way of thinking...

Capiche??