thanks Rob, I agree I have not sent her anything. I do need my own place, with some savings I have I am trying to make every penny last right now. Once I get these projects under way 1-2 months I will move. Cant do an apartment I have 2 big doggies a mastiff and an Akita, apartments only let you bring cats and rat dogs.

Her texting has increased quite a bit, sometimes I respond sometimes I dont. I need to let her mind wander a bit.