I'm still confused why most people here are told to expose the A but I'm being advised to ignore it? Still trying to make sense of that. Public dating website or not, shouldn't the same rules still apply? She's basically getting away with it and no one is telling her it's wrong. Feel like my W isn't dating to heal herself. Think she's doing it looking for some magic fantasy.
CityGirl is right.
There is nothing to expose. She is on a public site being up front about her marital status. She isn't hiding anything.
People vary in their attitudes about dating while still legally married, but separated. I don't think it's wrong in this situation and evidently neither does she. Whether you think she's doing it for the right reasons is irrelevant. She's a grown up woman.
Maybe it's the adrenalin rush of anger that is fooling you into thinking that saying something about it shows strength. It would actually look really silly.
