Not sure where to start, or end. WAW?

[john28]

Johnny boy!!! Come on man....

You got this... Stop 2nd guessing yourself. Go back and read all these wonderful posts. You know the answer.

Fixing her problems is what got u in this mess.

Tough Love. Remember?? It's time for her to grow up. Put on the BGP's.

Do it if you want to, but that would be the same thing you have been doing.

Once again. If you want different results then try thinking differently. Stop trying to SAVE HER. She needs to DO THE WORK on her own. YOU are not her DADDY...

Stop asking questions you already no the answers to...

Remember your a strong, confident man that sometimes makes mistakes but doesnt 2nd guess yourself.

Have you read Kevin4dallas's post yet? You need to see the similarities.

You're right PMA - I did know the answer 2 minutes after I posted that. It was what my mind told me to do, not my feelings, that didn't ask her "can i help you little girl, I'm here for you like Daddy"

By that same token it's pursuing. But, if she asks me to fix it for her, that's her pursuing me and that's a good thing.

Thanks! And yes, I've read through K4D's posts, but I will again.