Rob I will not do any bum rubs on you or any other man!!!!! cant speak for Bustorama. I am starting to go out, interact with others. I am not going to jump in the sack with anyone too soon. I will just keep doing what im doing now, which is working for me. I am focusing now on work and also my kids. At the same time, I do not tell the W much any more. If she starts to pry I will not tell her any details, just doing my thing.