Originally Posted By: gr8 day 2B alive
take control of yourself. continue to learn about the "game"-
What attracts W and how to communicate affectively with them.

Thought I knew, guess I'm still learning. Maybe I don't have a clue or maybe it just doesn't matter to my W what I do.


Originally Posted By: gr8 day 2B alive
My W never joined the one I go onto, it was her "friend".


Oh, sorry, I thought you were both on the same site. The one you're on is the one my W is on and most likely the one I would join too.

Originally Posted By: gr8 day 2B alive
Watch out for girls from Russia.


LOL

Just thinking out loud. I'm still confused why most people here are told to expose the A but I'm being advised to ignore it? Still trying to make sense of that. Public dating website or not, shouldn't the same rules still apply? She's basically getting away with it and no one is telling her it's wrong. Feel like my W isn't dating to heal herself. Think she's doing it looking for some magic fantasy.

Gr8, I forget what you did. Did you expose your W to family and friends? You sitch is similar to mine...W is also on a dating website. Just curious.

Last edited by mza8; 08/26/10 06:41 PM.

M 38
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Together 19 years
Married 12 years
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