Sure enough, he contacted OW this morning and they've been texting all morning.
How do I handle this? Do I tell him to go to a hotel now?
"I have decided I can't live in a open marriage. This marriage isn't working for me. It is disrespectful to me and the girls for you to carry on like this. You are not welcome at home anymore. I will contact a L and start the D proceedings."
Let him go. Take all the pressure off him. He gets to make the next move. If you don't do anything about the unacceptable behavior then it just continues. Your family won't survive with him devoting time, energy and money to another woman. Time for him to feel the consequences.
You can handle it.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
