New Thread - Same Sitch

[steady]

lol Allen. I think you're right though. I once told my W she's chasing a rainbow. And I think that's exactly what happens. They think finding someone or something else will make them 'happy'. They go through the same cycles until they look at themselves.

If I can only get rid of my 'problem' (the LBS) I can have that dream relationship like you see in the movies and read in those magazines.

I think that's why they mix up the 'I'm not in love with you' with 'attraction'. In our society it's all about love in relationships. If it was all about love why is there the for worse part of the vows? They knew there's an ebb and flow in everything in life...including R's.

Bur M is a throw-away commodity now. I read a remark that it's easier to get out of a M than get out of a cell phone contract. People don't realize it's the working through the lows that give the R an opportunity to rise to new heights.

Even Michelle talks about this when addressing the WAS in her book (or maybe it was in one of her articles).