Just wondering if you ever considered swapping the Wednesday nights to alternate so every other Wed. you have just your daughter and W has your son? Does your D get any one on one time with her daddy? I'm 32 and still call my dad to talk about my own life a few times a week so I do think a father/daughter bond is very important.
We've tried that a few times but each time they protest. I know one on one time with each of them is very important for their growth with my W and I. They are still getting used to this change - I'll address it again in the future.
Once again, the damage gets done by a family that splits apart. I don't care what anyone says about the resiliency of kids. For every study with one conclusion, you'll find another study with the opposite.
- Two kids one parent at a time. They lose the one on one which is very important for their growth - Two kids doing homework/projects after school; one parent to help both of them while cooking, cleaning up, making lunches, prepping for the next day and finishing the responsibilities of this day - Two kids one parent. One kid wants to do this, but the other one wants to do that.
I dare anyone to face me and tell me they don't lose out on things that can't be made up with 'resiliency'.
MySitch Me-47 STBXW-41 D-5 S-8 ILYBNILWY-01/08 Want a D- 01/09 Physical Sep-01/10 D filed-06/10 Got 50% custody=09/11 Ride that wave!
