A new beginning to an end

[ImprovedRomeo]

((((((Sol))))))

We've ALL had those days and weeks. Not that it makes it any easier for you but I know the feeling.

How'd you burn your hand? That's really the only thing I'm concerned about. Hope it heals soon.

Didn't you retain an attorney? he should've been the one served on your behalf. Or is that what you meant? I know it sucks either way but getting served is one of the hardest things to go through...the next day or two will be tough just reeling from it but things will start to clear up and you'll have this shift where instead of living in the fear of the unkown you'll work towards getting this D process over with.

As for him suing you for half the mortgage...that's low and pathetic! He's showing his true colors. It's probably nothing more than a scare tactic. It realy depends on what you consider your date of separation and the state laws. Like here moving out physically is typically considered the date of legal separation too. So after discussing with your attorney I would suggest you use that as your date of separation. The value of the house should also be assessed as of that date and you be given half of the equity. If the house is sold and the value of the house depends on that or assessed at a date after seperation he can ask you to reimburse him for half the mortgage. Your lawyer should be able to help you with this stuff. That's what they're there for...and we're here to help too, you're not alone! don't sweat it.

Speeding ticket...yeah it sucks. Luckily you can now do the traffic school online so it doesn't go on your driving record. Again, don't sweat it...

Court date...yes I hate them with a passion but it's a necessary evil. You have to get out of this D, the sooner you do the better you'll feel. And you will feel better, I promise!

He's not throwing you away...read Ellie's post in your other thread. Sometimes people make wrong decisions and there's nothing you can do about it. He's made the worst decision of his life and I guarantee you he'll regret it. This is our time to grieve and feel this pain...there time comes later.

((((Sol))))