Gr8, I don't know. I think just the simple fact of informing her that I know what she's doing.
The friend my W now hangs out with is a lot like your W's friend. My W's friend is also divorced and was on the same dating website as my W. I am absolutely sure that my W's friend is enabling my W's behavior. My W's sister is also very controlling of my W. W's parent's can also be controlling. Feel like I don't have a snowball's chance because so many people are in my W's ear. W and her friend almost live the same lifestyle now. Funny because my W never wanted to be where her friend was...now she is.
I have received outstanding advice the past two days, no doubt. I want to thank everyone again. Still trying to process everything that's been advised to me and get it through my thick head.
Yes, I am VERY ANGRY...VERY VERY ANGRY! Sigh...I can't get past this, I haven't been able to let it go yet. I'm angry with the control she has over me, angry that she doesn't even try, angry that she dismisses me like some stranger, angry with her high and mighty attitude...let's see, what else? This just isn't right. I wish I could just tell her what I think of her, tell her to go pound sand and move on. I know this is the anger in me talking. I have good moments and bad still. IC even told me last night he sees the anger in me. God knows I'm trying to let it go.
Gr8, are you still on the same dating website as your W? What does everyone think of me joining the same website as my W? Don't want W to look at it as my playing tit for tat, but do I even care at this point? If I'm going to date then this dating website would be one of the ones I would probably use.
M 38 WAW 36 Together 19 years Married 12 years Bomb/Separated Oct. 09 I love my wife Sitch