Hi FindingMyVoice, I am so glad that I could help and of course you can post whatever will help you. I think I found my strength when I realized that I would be ok on my own and when some of my fears pertaining to the relationship became a reality and I got through them. I am a runner and that also helped me become strong mentally as well as take off 75lbs.. It was really a combination of things. I just realized that the only person I could count on was myself. Hang in there..it will be ok:) I promise! Let me know if I can help you in any way. I am going to start following your thread:)

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