I think the problem with waywards is they are sold on the hollywood love mythos :


If you love someone, marriage is easy
If you feel love, then you're in love, if you don't, then get out of there
Pursue the magic, never settle
Love is something that happens on site, if the magic isn't there, then you are barking up the wrong tree


Waywards get sold on this stuff... And I notice a lot of waywards that end up in affairs seem to resort to MUSIC for thier reasoning...

Ya, like musicians have stable marriages and can give good advice? lol