...W stayed up and started to tell me about her day, we talked a bit, I think she was trying to through some things out there to test my jealousy, didnt react just listened to her about her day. She didnt ask about my day, I turn away for 3 mins and then she is asleep.
She wakes up tells me goodnight and makes her way upstairs. After about 10 mins she texts me and asks if the salon I got her a gift card at was open on sundays and if i would mind if she went tomorrow. I replied " I knew you would go on a sunday, I made sure they were open on sundays, no I dont mind". She replied with a thank you, and i replied with a your welcome. She did text me quite a bit today, nothing important, and she also made the effort to call me a few times today. I always ended the calls, and was friendly and polite.
We are going to church together tomorrow so I will be chipper and on my best behavior.
You were physically in the same house and she texted you? I'm sorry bro but I think that's just disrespectful, if she couldn't walk a few steps to ask you the question in person that pretty much tells you why you shouldn't be buying her these gifts in the first place. You buy her a gift and she can't even ask you about it in person? I wouldn't tolerate that crap behavior, I would have ignored her text and if she asked about it the next day and why you ignored her text, I would have told her that asking in person while the two of you were in the same house is the respectful way to communicate between adults, you're not 13 and yes there is a difference, if she doesn't realize this then she has a lot of growing up to do.
Originally Posted By: dsh4320
...A friend of hers I ran into last night, said with our first S, even though she had OM, W kept focusing on what I was doing, she would even hack into my emails and stuff while we were S and after I filed for D. I guess no matter how much she says she is done, is she really> her friend says the W gets like this and even though she wants to walk away she doesnt want anyone else to have me. Friend asked if I would take her back? I said right now if she was willing to work on it I would, but if D goes through I am done. I am not going to do this every couple of years with the W, when she gets unhappy time to run. She needs to grow out of that mentality its childish and frankly I am sick of it.
So when she cheated on you with another man, she also hacked into your emails and such but you have to build back trust now because you read her journal a few times and lied about a few small things? When does she have to build back trust? In fact, how important could a relationship be to her if she never had to work to build back your trust after what she did? She's probably bored, you're too easy, you let her back in without having to work for it and she came back just for the security of the family life rather than sticking it out on her own. Something to think about.
