Ok, I'll email her informing her that I've made the necessary decisions on the house, taxes, etc. I agree. I can't allow her not getting back to me to cause a serious problem with the issues before it's too late. I will handle it.

The only decision I'm still struggling with is whether or not to tell her that she needs to find a new real estate agent as I don't think I can represent us anymore. It would be very difficult for me to continue to be the agent knowing she is going to date. Yes, it probably does help me being the agent but it would be very tough for me to swallow.

She has totally played me. She was nice to get me to list the house and sign the agreement. She's been nice lately so that I do what she wants. Then once she got what she wanted she sneaks behind my back and joins the dating website. I'm finally starting to realize just how manipulative and skeaky she is. Just like before she left last year. She was nice the week before she left and then I come home to her leaving. She has shown her ugly side.


M 38
WAW 36
Together 19 years
Married 12 years
Bomb/Separated Oct. 09
I love my wife
Sitch