Coach, I hear you. I know it's not the best approach. I feel like not saying anything to her about this bascially tells her that I'm either ok with it or too weak to stand up to her. Confusing to me when to be a man (attractive, lead, confident) and when to be counterintuitive to what I used to do and do something different.

Why do you think that not telling her this is the better option? Is it because you think that if I do confront her it hurts any chance (if there is one) that we could someday get back together? Or is it another reason? Just trying to clarify it for me. I'm in my own fog lately and probably not thinking straight...meaning I'm a little slow right now. smile

If there's no chance of ever getting back together I'm not sure why I can't confront her about it? Again, I'm on very little sleep the past two days so my mind is foggy.


M 38
WAW 36
Together 19 years
Married 12 years
Bomb/Separated Oct. 09
I love my wife
Sitch