I'm back and looking for insight

[kat727]

Yes, it is bad. He found me last September on FB. I wasn't very receptive at first since I still remembered our break up from 28 years ago! lol Anyway, he kept sending me messages and I would give short replies. Then in mid-November, he started an IM convo with me. Explained about how he had been in an accident, lost a good chunck of his memory but that when he started to remember it was high school time and of course, me. Wanted to let me know how he hoped he hadn't hurt me and that I had been a great girlfriend. He couldn't remember how or why we broke up. We kept messaging each other over the next few months.

Then we talked in mid-February until his phone battery died(about 2.5 hours) and then he wrote me a note and had it translated to Danish for me. (I had been an exchange student and my leaving was part of the reason he broke up with me)So that got to me as no one in 28 years had done that for me...not even my former H. There is other stuff and more time spent with him but too much to post now. Just wanted you to get the feel of it.

Anyway, back to now. I could send something like:
"K, I have been respecting your relationship and not contacting you, however you still haven't cashed my check that I mailed you. I like to be in balance and this has been throwing me off."

What do you think? Neutral enough?

kat