This is one area that is hard for me to do. I have thought a lot about what types of boundaries to set. I just can't think of any with a good response to her challenge. For example, she wants to file for a D. She will eligible for a portion of my pension. She wants to avoid court and go through a mediator. I want her to continue with MC and save my finances. So is this an area where I set a boundary? I will work with you through mediation in good faith as long as you continue with the MC and stay away from my pension. She makes a good income and probably doesn't need the extra money.
In regards to her texting how do I handle it? If I tell her that I will move forward with the D if she continues to text (probably him-but I don't have proof yet) but she wants to move forward with the D so what would be the thing I would do if she violated the boundary. This is where I am getting confused.
I am just not sure how to set boundaries when she is going to file for divorce next week.
I have tried the GAL-running, triathlon, wieght lifting, etc. and have been doing 180's. Reversing my self on a lot of issues. So that is the short version of what I have done.
