Start of the end..

[iwantittowork]

Hey G-man, thanks for the reply.

I'll be going, and as far as the boundary. D9 does not know about there relationship, and as far as I know she just see's him at Kung Fu, and he is her Sifu.

I could announce that I don't like this arrangement, but there is little I can do about it, other than monitor D9 and answer any questions that may come up. I have asked stbxw to inform me before she involved d9 in the life of any of her new men, and it is up to her to do so or not.

Now as far as this weekend, it's 1 hour out of my life, I can focus on d9.

It will bring my work on mindfullness to the forefront.
- To stay in the moment
- Not assume things I don't know
- Focus on d9
- not build stories about my past or future that have nothing to do with the present moment that I will be at the place to watch d9 test for her yellow sash.

I know this will be tough on me, and accept that, so will work on above during it and after..