She has been thinking about this for years. So if she answers right away then what? Her answer is invalid? See how you are trying to control things? Let go, holding on doesn't work.
No, it's not invalid and I am not going to hold if she does not want me to continue but I want to have a chance to finish what I need to say. She asked me "what do you want?" and I am going to say just that and until I am finished.
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Not your choice to make. Your wife is much more detached than you realise, she's trying to let you down softly, she doesn't want to hurt your feelings , she's mothering you which is a attraction killer.
She has never had a problem with that. I don't think that's the case. She has her own strange way of apologizing but she does not hold back what she wants to say. It has always been that way with everyone, not just with me.
