I'm still amazed at how little anger or outrage you show at her behavior over the years. Then you bow down to her littlest wishes. It probably perplexes your wife as well.
Believe me when I say that I am angry. I am very angry that I was treated this way by her. Furious.
But by that same token, I did the same to her. I controlled her, I manipulated her, I wasn't there for her, I was selfish, etc. I caused the same pain - except I didn't do it with some OW.
By nature, I want us to stop hurting each other. That's the first step. Anything beyond that is where a plan must formulate to fight for my family.
I can fight for my family with strength and honor without being nasty or disrespectful. I can also fight for my family without allowing her to be nasty or disrespectful.
That's what it's going to take to save this M. Honor, integrity, Love.
Believe me - I'm outraged. But I have to accept what has happened, just as I have to accept that my W has moved out and from now on I might possibly have less time with my S4 which I desire most in this world.
since you don't follow anyone's advice here. What's your plan?
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
