I have no proof of her lying here. I still have the disk to put the logger on but my IC told me to make myself vulnerable. If she leaves she leaves I will survive. So I am trying to trust her and hope for the best.
Does this IC have any experience in dealing with infidelity??? I'm sorry, that is just FOOLISH advice. When one is in a battle, one doesn't make themselves "vulnerable"!!!
Trust must be earned, and hope isn't a plan, Norstar. But it's your sitch, and your choice.