You need to poke your head out and send something....
Gee, wish you weren't that interested in him--how bad is it??
You know how to detach and get a life if it doesn't work--so I say.. just do it!!!
So much fun! Something like...
"Ex, I hope all is well. I need to (XYZ). I respect your relationship as you have asked, but I need you to XYZ..."
Use "respect" at least once, better if twice. Do you know his LLs? And he likes to be the hero....hm...
Post something and we'll fine tune it.lol.
OK, girl, you can see from my posts that I don't make this easy on any guy around me.lol. I say you are too much the "nice girl" and you need to get in there and mess with him! Hone your skills woman!!
D4ML, I hope you are reading this stuff--you got your "day" coming!!lol.
And ladies, if it isn't fun, stop. If you don't know how to detach and GAL and shake it off, stop. I am in a "I don't care" mode with my H, so this isn't hard any longer for me.
I need to post later today what I did to my H. OMG--I crack myself up!
But I DO hope you'll join me because I tell ya, You have the ability--and we can have a TON of fun with this stuff!!!