My H has just gotten worse and worse over the years, but really--he has never been great. I consider us to have had a sex-starved marriage most of our our married life. And while I personally have no problem with porn used in the right setting, my H over the years I found was watching tons. I asked him to stop, didn't think much of it, and then when it would get really bad I would find that he was using it again. So now I consider it cheating, and he has basically "cheated" us out of a sex life for a long time.
He is a very angry, sulky guy. Oh yes, I am SOOO tired of that.lol.
I still am DBing him--see the post I wrote to Kat above. I mean, once you have these skills how do you stop using them?? They are a huge part of "me" now and if it brings out the best of him, what the heck!
But I am not terribly "hopeful". He served me with D papers 3 weeks ago, so things are moving in that direction. I am, for the most part, doing great! to his horror!!lol. I have my moments of panic (mostly because angry guy comes out now and again and wants to take my S and leave me penniless). But for now, there is this weird nice guy who yesterday told me a bolt on my horse cart is broken and he is and I quote" concerned abuot my safetly (!!?) and today has run out to get me a new one!lol.
He'll never be able to get rid of me--I know how to get to him like no one else can!!lol.
