Sunny- I just put Steady's "Hammer" on your thread.
IMO, your indecision comes from this VVVVVV
Originally Posted By: SunnyD
my sitch is hard to decipher so I don't know what to do.
It's even harder for YOU to decipher because your are emotionally connected to it. And the 'ciphering' is going through YOUR filters. And then you are ACTING on likely false 'reads' of the sitch.
Hard to be consistent when the data is faulty.
Do what you need to do to be the person you want to be in the M. PERIOD. Cause that's who you're going to stay in the marriage.
