Yeah - my boat is leaky at the moment and I could use any help I can get! LOL
Here's the thing: my sitch is hard to decipher so I don't know what to do. H and I are supposed to be working on things, so in ways, I feel I should be looking for ways to draw him back in. Your case, CD, is a bit more cut and dry in that there's no way I'd be looking to properly motivate my WAS if there wasn't some level of commitment. I don't mean to sound like your sitch is "easier" - lol. I just have a hard time separating myself out. I keep thinking maybe I should be in the "piecing" phase and maybe I'm not supposed to be yet....
To not hijack your thread here, lol, it's a good thing you pointed out - about making sure to look through the proper end of the telescope! :-) Helps keep me on task, for sure. And hey - anything you want to post is fine! I could use all the help I could get right now as I am trying to stay in the right frame of mind.