Yeah John don't mess wit her stuff, you do respect her right? Can't you see this stuff coming by now? You need to mess with her stuff - her phone and computer. If you really love your son, her and yourself you would find out what is going on. What does she do all day while you are at work? Anymore late night trips to the store? Your fear of your wife is killing your marriage.
Go ahead and "respect" her wishes, she has no problem breaking her vows, having a abortion against your wishes and jerking you around. Give her all the respect you think she deserves. She can't respect you because she knows you can't stand up to her. She is stronger than you. It kills all attraction.
McQ said it too, break her boundaries (mess with her stuff) they aren't real or valid at this point. She is treating you like you let her. Retro can teach you to communicate better it can't give you a backbone.
I'm still amazed at how little anger or outrage you show at her behavior over the years. Then you bow down to her littlest wishes. It probably perplexes your wife as well.
Nailed it again Coach!!
John - Haven't you been reading and reflecting on all your posts?
I have been saying this from day 1. It's all about RESPECT and CONTROL. Especially for us "nice guys" and passive agressive guys that are nice at first then are resentful once taken advantage of. Dont you see that it's our fault for "ENABLING" this behavior in the first place.
It's time to step up and FIGHT for your family. Fight for your RESPECT with STRENGTH and HONOR. Time to be Popeye and eat your spinach. Your mentality should be "I've had all I's can stands and I's cant stand no mor..." Then set your RESPECT BOUNDARIES and stick to them. "Listen woman you've disrespected ME and OUR FAMILY with your IMMORAL GAMES long enough... prepare to defend yourself...."
Time to silence the "little boy" is right. Let go of her skirt and kick some a$$
