My H has been adamant about staying separated until 2013 but it's not something I care to do any longer.
Last Nov. he made a passionate plea to me that he didn't want this to be the end of us, it could not be our "grand finale" and he would do whatever he could to earn my trust and respect back. I never heard from him after that for 5 months and when I did hear from him it was to inform me he was moving in with OW and how great things were.
Oh dear, Gawd. He's delusional. You know what's interesting to me... how he wants to stay M'ed to you til 2013 yet live with OW. I wonder how she feels about that? Didn't you once say she will not let him speak your name in front of her? Hilarious. (for her).
D is dead weight now. Him wanting you to keep M'ed to him while he started off this new life with a new woman is laughable. I guess he thinks you will always be there, no matter what. When will you file the D papers?
Do you still see the guy you went on a few dates with (the lovely guy)? Your apprehension to start a new R seems totally normal and healthy to me.
I really enjoy reading all of your posts. I find them to be a source of strength. You seem really together and like a strong person which is very admirable.
