When I was staying over there I also paraded around with my shirt off and wearing boxers that I didnt realize my package was hanging out of and she said she felt violated that I was sitting next to her with my stuff hanging out (she wouldn't feel violated by a gay friend, right?). And when she walked in on me while I was showering, she was nervously checking me out then left. In other words, I think there is something sexual still there, but she is scared or turned off still cause of the trust issues.
Busto,
I'm sorry, but I think your wife has some serious sexual issues and hangups. Was she ever abused when she was younger or anything like that? Her behavior is just WIERD, and I would caution you when she's making statements like what I've bolded above. It is VERY common for a wayward wife to use these kinds of accusations legally against you -- I see it on here all the time.
And Robx, I'd also be curious to know what, specifically, you don't like about Harley's approach.
