I think if she puts the hammer down to quickly on him that she could push him further away. Sounds like she has been trying to push him into staying in the M and should just back off and give him some space and time. While he's figuring things out she needs to GAL and move on herself so she becomes more attractive to him.
M-34, H-37, No Kids Married 4yr, Together 6yr Discovered EA 7/24/10 Separated 8/6/10 Filed 8/16/10 H Moved home and Piecing 9/20/10 H returns to OW 12/10 EA was really PA I file 12/29/10 I move out 12/30/10
