Originally Posted By: Trapt
many times the LBS isn't mentally prepared to lay it correctly and follow through.


I agree with this.

Bobby you have not had to deal with OM so far so maybe that idea is just a killer.

I can tell you as much as the idea the actual deed is worse...

BUT

You have to come to understand that if you believe your W is MLC

and

You want to try to save your M

You are going to have to emabark on a journey that will shake every entitled, self serving idea you have about love and M.

I post this a lot.

When you married your wife did you say this:

"I will love and honor you all the days of my life, for better or worse

BUT

If you get scared and lose your way

I won't"

? You didn't vow that did you? But maybe that is what we meant really?

Most people don't have the stomach for the "worse" in "for better or worse"

And how would you want to be loved?

When you are peaceful and contented

Or

When your demons are chasing you?

When you are so scared you make poor decisions about your life?

We get what we give my friend.

If you decide to embark on this journey you will challenge yourself and every idea you have

When you come through the other side you will see a man in the mirror that

you always aspired to be.

And maybe

Maybe

Your M is saved.


My goal is to some day be the person my dog thinks I am