I will probably be late to the party as usual...but I did pick up some beer tonight...
Has anyone forwarded the info to Punkin and IB - I think they could use a drink and some off board humor.
Lola...conference call? This is task 389,421.
Eric
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
This is for all those lurking that read and may not post but find inspiration, guidance and solace in reading what others pour out of their hearts on to these boards.
If you are reading this and wondering when does it get better, when will I laugh again, when will the pain end and the crying stop......
It can today, you decide when not anyone else. Through all this crap and pain I had to find one day a week when I could say "This day will be a good day....no matter what". It has kept me going and has kept me in touch with the person I am the fun loving, happy, life of the party person other people want to be around. I thought that person died early on in my sitch, not so......he just got side tracked and lost his way.
I found him again, and that was because I mandated one day a week to be MY day, the day where nothing could go wrong, not bring me down. This is a day where I remind myself that life is good and it is a good life to be living.
If you are reading this, please take my advice....find your day, maybe it is only once a month to begin with but set aside a day that you push all that crap in your head out and you remember what it is like to be happy.
Do what you have to in order to stay in that place even for just a couple of hours. Put on some music that takes you to another place, fix some food that reminds you of good times, call a friend, fix your favorite beverage, what ever it takes....go there and hang out for a while.
I invite you to make today that day. I call today Little Friday, I like to welcome the weekend a liite early. You can come by my place and hang for a while, but bring your bathing suit and sun tan oil because I go to the caribbean and sit on the beach drinking coronas and watch the waves lap the sandy beach. For a couple of hours tonight I will be on my patio but in my mind I will be somewhere else far away from the troubles that seem to surround me at times.
Do this for YOU.
YOU deserve it.
and know that it does get better......
Cheers
Formerly "missherlove"
Me49 XW49 M17 T19 S16 D20
Expose yourself to your deepest fear; after that, fear has no power, and the fear of freedom shrinks and vanishes. You are free.
Drinks definitely help with the mindset for Little Friday so I will start us off. This is a great poolside, beachside, anywhere it is HOT type of blender drink.
I call it Turtle Juice (a little on the sweet side)
1 Blender full of ICE add 4 oz Rum 4 oz Midori (melon liquer) 4 oz creme de cocoa 4 oz pineapple juice
Blend her up!!!!
garnish with pineapple wedge
enjoy!!!
Formerly "missherlove"
Me49 XW49 M17 T19 S16 D20
Expose yourself to your deepest fear; after that, fear has no power, and the fear of freedom shrinks and vanishes. You are free.
