Yeah John don't mess wit her stuff, you do respect her right? Can't you see this stuff coming by now? You need to mess with her stuff - her phone and computer. If you really love your son, her and yourself you would find out what is going on. What does she do all day while you are at work? Anymore late night trips to the store? Your fear of your wife is killing your marriage.
Go ahead and "respect" her wishes, she has no problem breaking her vows, having a abortion against your wishes and jerking you around. Give her all the respect you think she deserves. She can't respect you because she knows you can't stand up to her. She is stronger than you. It kills all attraction.
McQ said it too, break her boundaries (mess with her stuff) they aren't real or valid at this point. She is treating you like you let her. Retro can teach you to communicate better it can't give you a backbone.
I'm still amazed at how little anger or outrage you show at her behavior over the years. Then you bow down to her littlest wishes. It probably perplexes your wife as well.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
