the games continue with good and bad days...

[MrBond]

Gef,

I see PDT posting to you and that's great. Just my 2 cents.

I notice that you keep asking for advice but don't do anything with it. All your posts just describe what happened and not really about what DB principles you've tried applying.

Bottom line is to do something different. Right now your W is going to see anything you say as negative. It doesn't matter if the sky is blue. If you say it is, she'll say it isn't. Which is why you avoid the R talk to a certain degree.

The OM is an addiction and it takes several months for it to go away. What boundaries have you established? Doesn't sound like you had any.