It's been several years since I read PM. I read his more recent book a year or so ago and liked that one a little better. I will check them out.
It does help to hear how the HD brain might view things.
RIght now I am still reeling from recent events and his abandonment at this time. He chose a lousy time to withdraw, especially after we'd had a period of such closeness.
When we get through this, I do plan on reading more about boundaries and codependency. I think everyone must be codependent to some extent - but again it's just a label for a wide range of behaviors. I try to read to understand what may be happening. Knowledge helps.
He: WAH Me: LBW Precious: DD
~ I'm grateful for every day I have to improve the way I relate.