Does anyone think it would be appropriate if I gave my H a copy of the first chapter of Divorce Remedy? I really want him to consider long term and right now I'm not sure he's thinking that way.
If this is going to be the death of us, I want to make sure no stone is left unturned for me and the kids.
I am trying to give him space, but I want him to have as many tools as possible and I'm super worried that he's chosen a therapist who is not pro-marriage. I think my H is going for reassurance that what he is considering is right and on the surface if I were a therapist with H, I'd say hell yeah, leave her. Is it OK to ask H to (1) make sure the therapist is pro-marriage and (2) giving him a copy of DR? I dont want to push us farther back.
Me 40 H 42 S 16 D 15 Together for 23 years Married 18 Blow up 8/21/10 DBomb-but hiding for the kids sake? 8/25/10
