Not sure where to start, or end. WAW?

[john28]

I hope that she will still go to Retrouvaille with you. Your willingness to look within and make changes would help you there. If both people can do that, it is a win/win situation.

In MC today she said, "And now John wants me to go to this crazy christian catholic marriage retreat..." and the MC just nodded her head and knew exactly what she was talking about but didn't say anything.

Yeah, it's a 50/50 shot that she'll still go. She brought it up tonight at dinner. She said that me signing us up and not telling her until after I did so and paying for it upset her. I told her I understood (validation) and that I was trying to be a leader in our R, and I see that instead of being a leader, I'm just being pushy.

She said she let it go, it's not a big deal anymore. She did not say that she wouldn't go... so I guess it's still on until I hear otherwise. She knows that I've already paid for it, and that might be the only reason she goes. That - and she has a family member who just had a baby in the same city that she would like to go see...