It was kind of floating around in my head since about 5. I had a couple of conversations today "off-board" and pieces of this were discussed.
These are the keys.
Originally Posted By: Steady
Throw this stuff out CD. It's a waste of mental energy.
Explains my lack of focus.
Originally Posted By: Steady
You are putting too much focus on this stuff and it is getting you a bit 'high'. The reason I point this out is the next indication you translate as 'bad' is going to drop you from whatever height you're at
In chatting with EricM, it sort of floated out of the discussion that WE have the ability to "FLATTEN" the hills and valleys of the coaster by doing EAXACTLY THIS aka LETTING GO!!!
Originally Posted By: Steady
Her actions mean nothing. ...I am saying you need to take the meaning out of them as it relates to YOU.
For lack of a better understanding, I need to see them as "Stage Direction" e.g 'She texted him', 'She moved', 'She called' PERIOD. No inflection; no agenda; no motive unless she actually says it....but then we don't believe anything they say anyway.
Better yet. Be "done" with the matter the second it is done. Forget about it as soon as it's done.
It's not a mystery novel. There is nothing to figure out. It just IS. No expectation beforehand. No expectation after.
Thanks Steady.
A perfect end to the day and a great start on Thursday.
