Husband left me 3 months pregnant... (continued)

[newmama]

Yippeee! Not to be rude, but are you two affectionate at all yet? Just wondering.

And you haven't pushed the relationship or brought it up in a long time, eh? BRAVO!!!!! Interesting to see him come closer to you. I agree to be aware of his tendency to chase but how about this angle:

perhaps he is drawn to a non clingy, no pressure, independent confident BD. So you don't want to suddenly go back to bad behaviors that pushed him away, right?

It's like dieting...if you lose the weight from eating less but then start eating again when you get the weight off, well DUH! It's a lifestyle change like they say (although build in time to splurge like you build in time to talk about your R through dating)