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It's been nice having NC from him for the past few days.


It's probably a bad sign that I feel so relieved getting away from him.


Nope- it's called "detachment." And it is a very very healthy thing for you. Detachment from the ridiculous selfish behavior he is displaying now...the man he is now...not detachment from loving him and wanting to be married to an improved man. Feel empowered that we can stick a fork in you! (lol- YOU ARE DONE!)


me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004