Ok, question for you. Do you think if I start to date at this point (now that W beat me to the punch), that it could still have the same effect on my W? If the answer if yes then I'm all in. I cannot leave any stone unturned. I still don't feel completely comfortable with it but who cares now, I want her back.
Over your past ten posts you have mentioned if you do X will W Y.
This shows you are still attached.
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This is hurtful to hear I'm sure but your W is VERY detached from you. Give yourself the same gift.
Citygirl is right: It is said that forgiveness is the gift you give to yourself......So is detaching
If you don't want to date I suggest going out to dinner by yourself and sitting next to some ladies. I met three ladies tonight, none of which I would date but I did have interesting conversation.
Get back into the game and get some confidence.
I hear confidence is the number 1 attractant for women, followed by sense of humor.
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