And 6 hours later I have not had a follow up attempt from her.
Mustn't have been important or she was checking MY temperature.
Throw this stuff out CD. It's a waste of mental energy. These are only two of hundreds of possibilities.
I'm going to go out on the ledge here a little bit. This is what I see - it 'appears' the A may be starting to crack. You 'perceive' there may be some positive changes in your W - calling instead of texting, asking for help with certain things.
You are on a slippery slope. I have been there many times. You are putting too much focus on this stuff and it is getting you a bit 'high'. The reason I point this out is the next indication you translate as 'bad' is going to drop you from whatever height you're at.
Her actions mean nothing. If you put any meaning on them you are guessing, and you are guessing they are 'good'.
I'm not saying they aren't what they may appear to be, but I am saying you need to take the meaning out of them as it relates to YOU.
Sorry if this post is a bit of a downer CD, but I've been there and I'm only letting you know what I wish I could have done in my own sitch. It's the same advice I got from the vets who were on my thread at the time.
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