Pretty sure its a MLC, now what?

[Truegritter]

Lala

Glad you are posting again.

Read Lola's threads about new man giving attention.

It only distracts from the work you HAVE to do.

Good idea with the post its.

Staples likes it too I'm sure.

When we come here we feel the lowest we will proably ever feel because someone has left us behind. So why? What is wrong with me?

At first we come here looking to get our spouse back because that will validate us in our "old" dysfunctional way of thinking

Then a new road opens to us.

One of understanding and growth.

But you have to be willing to choose it and do the work.

And it is work.

Read Eric's posts and you see this process for all of us is ever evolving and

is never over. Our work on ourselves.

Forgive yourself for your own failings in your M.

And for believing these things about yourself.

Forgive yourself and do better.