I know about how I need to detach. I have a daughter who is 15 years old. I assume I will need to communicate about when I can see her. I have read on this site that if the wife leaves then you need to set boundaries. If she dates or gets involved with someone than it is really over and that will not be tolerated. I was not planning on dating at this point. Will not be around if she moves and when I refinanced the house I bought out her equity so the house is mine. In any case will see where this journey takes me. Bobby O
