Ok got my ring back! Here is what happened- first, the plan to meet at 10:45 fell through. My friend C came to help me move into my classroom and she was irked that I was going to take some time to get my ring! wtf? But she got over it.
So I wait...5 minutes go by and then 10...I text him "I'm here in my bikini!"
he texts "oh no! I just looked at the clock and thought it said almost 10!" Hmmm
me: "I gotta do stuff-" finally I said "call me to figure this out."
so he does and I can tell he was embarrassed and rushing around. We agreed to meet after 1.
Fast forward...I am there at the place, waiting "Must I always be waiting, waiting on you?" (I am so type A and he is so type B)
So finally he pulls up and tells me to hop in. I get my ring and bracelets. He said he liked my shirt and then asks "how are you?" I tell him great, busy but in a good way, having a good week, had a lot of fun at the beach. Asked how he was doing. He told me that he went to a concert last night and got totally tanked. (I think he slept in!) Then told me about the concert. I admit I touched his arm and said "you look really good, zoobrew." while looking him up and down. HE DID!!! ALL TAN with his nice body and hairy legs! yowsa!
He said "so do you, newmama. You look really good...REALLY good, actually..."
Then I asked about his trip to the mountains. He showed me pics of the cabin where he and his kids stayed. I was thinking "ummm...what is the point of all this chit chat?" So i finally say "well, I had so much fun with you and had a great time. And it was nice to meet you, haha!" he says "me too! Ok, bye! Just kidding." and we chat about something else. Finally I say okay, well take care and I'll see you around!" I told him I was going to a meet up later on. He said "ok, see you later!"
Then I got out and it was funny because I had to wait at the walk light thingy to cross the street at the same time he was waiting to turn left at the light. I waved again (like the 2nd time...akward!) Then he turned and I crossed the street. He honked and gave me the peace sign.
I remember thinking...this man isn't done with me, haha!
2 hours later, I get a text from him that says "It was really nice seeing you today. :)" So I said "I felt the same!"
How much you wanna bet I hear from him again? lol!
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004