FMV,
Originally Posted By: FindingMyVoice
Yes, and I'm sure she'll have volumes to say on it (yeep!). Learning to ask for help when I need it is what she'd been working on with me since last year. I get why I began having troubles with it (as a child); I just don't get what it's going to take for me to change it.
Not to minimize such life-long patterns (I have my own!), but just like DB, baby steps. Pick something small and just ask (I know, I know).
Originally Posted By: FindingMyVoice
Wow - I didn't realize you were actually moving cities?
Yep. Done with the Northeast. Funny, X and I were going to move outta here in 2012. Hopefully, I'll be heading out early next year. Colorado or Oregon.

Peace,


Gardener

"My soul, be satisfied with flowers,
With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them
In the one garden you may call your own."
Cyrano deBergerac