Well, to hear him talk, the 20 years has all been about obligation and responsibility to his kids... Of course, I know better than to take that personally. He's definitely in history re-write stage!
I don't have an answer, I guess. I mean, I'm a pretty supportive, easy to live with person. I do understand my depression issues of the last several years made me "less Sunny" but even the kids tell me, "Mom: you weren't bad. Stop blaming yourself for that. We never felt you were bad."
