Got an email from the W today announcing her weekend plans. I think I know what I should do to DB but wanted to get the forum's opinion.
W is going to a local food festival and spending the day there. W will have various friends meet her there throughout the day. This was a very unique food festival that we both enjoyed thoroughly last year when M was going well. W's email continued with "if you want to come, that's fine but I just thought I'd let you know who else will be there".
W also announced she's going to pack on Sunday and go to Ikea to check out furniture (presumably for her new apt). W email "if you want to go to Ikea with me that's fine".
While I want to be with her, I know this is a cardinal sin in DB if I follow her. So I should just reply with "thanks, have fun but I have other plans." right?