I phoned my Naturopath and told her how disappointed I us with the results of the Adrenal Fatigue test. She said not to pay too much attention to the results, she looks more at how people are feeling rather than test results. She said that these results could just be a reflection of the stressful last few weeks I've had with my Dad's illness, D's situations and my family going away to the cottage without me. It's kind of demoralizing when you start doing even more things to help yourself, such as meditation, and the results seem worse than before! Oh well, I guess I'll just plug along and keep doing what I need to do.
wii, all this IS tough but I've noticed that you're operating in a different mode lately. I'm sure the trigger was all the things you listed and it's perfectly ok. But like you say 'catch and release' acknowledge what you're feeling, why you're feeling it and move on.
Or as Homer Simpson once said 'You can't blame yourself forever, just blame yourself once and move on'
See wii, you have to find your mojo back...I know you will soon.
Me: 35|WAW: 38|D: 6yo | http://tinyurl.com/2dxx7m6 Feb 2006, left, came back in two weeks Aug 2006, left again Apr 2007, filed for divorce Dec 2007, reunited Mar 2010, moved out, filed again
Kat, I'm just filling in for wii while he's taking a break
I live by HS's quotes, I rate them right up there with Mark Twain and Socrates. Like when he said:
"The solution to every problem in life can be found at the bottom of a cold bottle".
or
"If at first you don't succeed; give up"
or
"Marge, I'm going to miss you so much. And it's not just the sex. It's also the food preparation."
or
"Don't eat me. I have a wife and kids. Eat them."
Me: 35|WAW: 38|D: 6yo | http://tinyurl.com/2dxx7m6 Feb 2006, left, came back in two weeks Aug 2006, left again Apr 2007, filed for divorce Dec 2007, reunited Mar 2010, moved out, filed again
Me: 35|WAW: 38|D: 6yo | http://tinyurl.com/2dxx7m6 Feb 2006, left, came back in two weeks Aug 2006, left again Apr 2007, filed for divorce Dec 2007, reunited Mar 2010, moved out, filed again
Thanks guys! Today was my formal evaluation and I woke up with a cold. I met with my supervisor Ms. "these are the worst files I've ever seen" and things went as well as I could hope for. In all categories I scored 3.5 out 4 except the file fiasco which got me a dazzling 2.5. So I survived! My daughter also talked to her bf and told him she wasn't taking any more of his crap and outlined her boundaries and she said he took it surprisingly well. So, I guess life is good, I just have to ditch this cold. I hope it's just a two dayer, we'll see. On the weekend we're going to the CNE and that will be an all day excursion, I want to feel some energy for that!
Wife was just over helping D16 with some makeup issue. Before she left she asked D13 about her plans to go to the CNE (big annual fair in TO) next week. D13 was supposed to make arrangements with her friend and did not seem to know what they were. I said "Oh well, that's up to D13, if she wants to go she will make the arrangements" and wife says "that's the difference between you and me, if I know she wants it I'll go out of my way to make it happen." Um, WTH does that mean? It sure seems like a shot to me but her voice was very matter of fact...but on the other hand, who really cares! Anyway, I'm taking the girls to the CNE on Saturday, meeting some family friends and wife plans to come down later to meet us all.
