N, I'm very glad you and your mother had a great time at Stone Mountain. The laser show is great. I don't know how they pull it off, but it's great.
What type of hedge trimmers are you using, i.e., electric or gas powered?
As for the photos, well time does wear on people...especially those who continue to run and put on masks for all to see.
I do think that there are going to be some interesting developments in your life in the very near future...someone flirting w/you? Enjoy it! If he asks you out...go and have some fun...you owe it to yourself.
Thank you for posting to me! Yes, I had a wonderful time at Stone Mountain with my Mom, I'm like you I don't know how they do that laser show but it was wonderful!
I use Electric hedge trimmers, I wouldn't be able to hold the gas ones, too heavy. My hedges are too big!! My arms give out, on Saturday they were really hurting.
I think you are right about putting on a mask in those pictures! You know a friend of mine told me & she knows my ex, she sang at our wedding, anyway she said people who have to flaunt their lives & how happy they are usually are not that happy & especially when they have to do it for everyone to see, like on face book. I don't see their wall, but I do see ex's brothers wall & things that are said are just too "great". So, I think my friend is right about that.
I sure hope there are some interesting developments coming up in my life. For me to get signs & recognize them I normally have to be knock in the head to see, but when I read that bible verse, I just knew that He was telling me to be patient.
As far as the office guy, haven't seen him anymore. See the company I work for has 2 offices rented in this building, so this guy has an office rented there also & I have to walk right by his office to get to mine. His office must be in the back b/c I never see anyone in there. He told me last week to stop by & say hi sometime, but I'm not that brave yet. I do think I'm going to ask a couple of friends if they know him or anything about him. One friend has mutual friends but she didn't know him, so we'll see. If he asked, I'll go but I still don't know if he will ask or not, but I am pretty sure he was flirting, like I said, I haven't been flirted with in a very long time.
My cousin is coming to visit me on Thursday & staying thru Sunday, I'm so looking forward to it. We got married on the same day, not the same year of course, about 5 or 6 years difference, anyway just a few years before my ex pulled this her ex ran off with a younger girl & left her & her daughter. We live about 3 1/2 hours away from each other but have started getting together some since all this has happened, mostly we have just gotten together around the holidays for lunch when I'm visiting my parents, she lives about an hour from them, but we haven't spent a lot of time together, we didn't realize how much alike we were. Anyway, this is going to be such a wonderful time for us! We are going to talk all weekend long!!!! She has really had a hard time with all this also & she had a teenager to deal with too, who just got married. So, this is time for her to do something for herself & she is coming to visit me.
Had a dream about ex last night, was upsetting, just to realize he is probably not coming back has really been hard on me. I guess since everything happened so fast, I really thought he would be back. And I think he would have if he had not met up with a sociopath.
N, Think positive! It seems like the more you think positive, the more good things will come your way.
I understand what you are saying about electric trimmers...they are much lighter than the gas powered ones. I hope you find one that you like and is also durable.
Enjoy your visitors!
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
Was just re-reading what you posted on my thread and you really have been dealt a lot the last few years!!! Knowing this makes me admire you even more for how strong you are!!!
Anything new with the office guy?
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Hi Everyone!! So sorry I haven't been on this site lately. I tried to get on a few times but it was down & lately I've been pretty busy. I worked 2 TV shows & that was wonderful.
Office guy!! Well, yes he was flirting!! I'm actually dating him now!!! YEAH!! I saw him a few weeks later & he asked me out & we have been dating since. He is my age, been divorced 5 years, after his wife's 3rd affair he filed for D but she wouldn't sign papers b/c he got custody of his twin girls & ex didn't want to pay child support. So, when the girls turned 18 she signed the papers. He works all the time & is out of town a lot but I really do like him. I'm trying just to take it easy & move slow but the first night he came over he told me that I was going to fall in love with him & he was going to fall in love with me. In fact, he told me that when he saw me in the parking lot that day & didn't see a ring on my finger he said to himself that he was going to make me his girl! So, we will see. I just want to take it a little slow but I'm enjoying.
As far as my ex, they have moved to Doha, Qatar, last week OW had to send me pictures of their "happy" little family! Well, let me tell you my ex looks terrible! He looks old, stressed, he just doesn't look good at all!! OW in the pictures, boobs were hanging out & she looked like a slut, not attractive at all. She also looks very old. The poor baby, they look more like grandparents than parents. She just has to keep trying to rub it in my face but you know all this tells me is if you have to flaunt your happiness & send to the ex wife then something is wrong & you are not that happy. Whatever!! I've come such a long way!! I'm happy now, whether this new guy in my life is Mr. Right or not, I don't have a clue right now but all I know is at least I'm getting out & I'm dating. Was it weird? YES! In fact, he kissed me right there in his office the day he asked me out, I was so shocked I didn't know what to say. That was over 2 months ago. So, my life is looking up! And, I also know from those pictures of ex that his life is not looking so hot!
Thank you all for posting to me & I'm going to try my best to do better about posting!!
First of all...so great to see an update from you!
Second...horray on dating the office guy!!! Can't wait to hear more about him!
Third...I think your H's OW is crazy...why in the world does she keep sending you pics! So strange! And, your H sounds like an "aimless wanderer". Resigned to the R with OW, controlled and manipulated! So sad!
You, OTOH sound wonderful!!!!
Thanks for updating and hope to see more from you!!!!
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Thank you so much for updating!!! You sound wonderful and happy. You deserve every bit of it! You walked the path and came out the other side.
I'm so happy to hear that you're dating! The new guy sounds wonderful and came at a time where you're both ready to go forward.
I see that nothing has changed with your X's crazy W. I agree 100% that there is something very wrong that she feels the need to keep sending you pics and updates of their life. She is a strange and pathetic creature, not to mention very insecure.
Please keep updating when you have time. It's very inspiring to read a success story!
